Members

Two tiers. One promise.

All educational content — guides, glossary, structures, Q&A — is free forever. Membership unlocks community and dating features when the platform's safety tooling is ready.

Free

Everyone, forever.

  • The complete library — guides, glossary, structures, Q&A
  • Local community listings
  • Event calendar and conference directory
  • ENM-affirming professional directory
  • Personal profile, basic search
  • 1:1 messaging (rate-limited)
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Member

Coming soon.

  • Everything in Free
  • Unlimited messaging
  • Advanced filters (structure, looking-for, safer-sex preferences)
  • See who's viewed your profile
  • Verified-member badge
  • Forum access (when forums launch)
  • Early access to in-person events
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Educational content stays free forever. The membership tier only gates community and dating features, never the library.